Derayo met Femi on a Facebook group and started a relationship without video calls, believing his photos depicted his real appearance.

Upon their first in-person date, Femi appeared drastically different, showing significant insecurities about his looks and revealing he had lied about his appearance.

Feeling deceived, Derayo ended the relationship immediately and now insists on mandatory video calls before progressing with anyone new.

The experience highlights the challenges of authentic connection in online dating and the importance of transparency.