Heveny is a place to meet new people, build meaningful connections, share real relationship experiences, and have honest conversations about dating, love, marriage, friendship, and everything in between.

To keep the community safe, respectful, and useful for everyone, we ask all members to follow these guidelines.

1. Treat people with respect

Be kind, considerate, and respectful in your interactions.

Disagreement is allowed. Insults, harassment, bullying, humiliation, threats, or targeted abuse are not.

Do not attack someone because of their appearance, background, beliefs, relationship status, gender, or personal experiences.

2. Be yourself

Use Heveny honestly.

Do not impersonate another person, create deceptive profiles, misrepresent your identity, or intentionally mislead people about who you are.

Profiles designed to scam, manipulate, or deceive other members may be removed.

3. Respect boundaries and consent

No one owes you a reply, date, relationship, phone number, photo, or private conversation.

If someone says no, stops responding, blocks you, or asks you to stop contacting them, respect that decision.

Repeated unwanted messages, sexual pressure, stalking, coercion, or attempts to bypass a block are not allowed.

4. Keep private information private

Do not share another person's private messages, photos, phone number, address, workplace, financial information, or other personal details without permission.

Avoid posting information that could expose or endanger another member.

When sharing relationship stories, remove identifying details where appropriate.

5. Share stories responsibly

Heveny encourages honest conversations about relationships, including difficult experiences.

You may share your own experiences, ask for advice, and discuss situations involving other people, but do not use Heveny to publicly shame, expose, threaten, or organize harassment against someone.

Whenever possible, focus on the situation rather than revealing unnecessary personal details about the people involved.

6. No hate or discrimination

Content that promotes hatred, dehumanization, violence, or serious discrimination against people based on protected characteristics is not allowed.

Communities created for specific groups, such as men's or women's spaces, may have participation rules, but they must still follow Heveny's wider standards of respect and safety.

7. No sexual exploitation or inappropriate sexual content

Heveny is a relationship community, so mature conversations about dating, intimacy, and relationships may occur.

However, pornography, explicit sexual solicitation, sexual exploitation, non-consensual intimate content, and content involving minors are prohibited.

Never request, share, or threaten to share intimate images without clear consent.

8. Protect minors

Heveny is intended for adults.

Users must meet Heveny's minimum age requirement to participate in dating and relationship features.

Any sexual content involving minors, attempts to groom minors, or exploitation of young people will result in immediate action and may be reported to the appropriate authorities where required.

9. No scams or financial manipulation

Do not use Heveny to trick people into sending money, investments, gifts, cryptocurrency, account credentials, verification codes, or financial information.

Romance scams, fake emergencies, investment schemes, advance-fee scams, and similar behavior are prohibited.

Be cautious when someone you have recently met asks you for money.

10. Don't spam the community

Avoid repetitive promotions, unsolicited advertising, mass messaging, misleading links, engagement manipulation, or posting the same content repeatedly.

Businesses, creators, and community hosts should only promote themselves where Heveny specifically allows it.

11. Keep communities on topic

Each Heveny Community may have its own purpose and additional rules.

Respect those rules and keep discussions relevant to the community you're participating in.

Content may be moved, limited, or removed when it repeatedly disrupts a community or is clearly unrelated to its purpose.

12. Don't encourage dangerous behavior

Do not encourage violence, self-harm, abuse, criminal activity, or behavior likely to seriously endanger another person.

If someone shares that they are experiencing abuse or another serious situation, respond with care rather than encouraging retaliation or dangerous confrontation.

13. Respect different relationship choices

People come to Heveny with different experiences and intentions.

Some are looking for love. Others are dating, married, rebuilding after heartbreak, seeking friendship, or simply sharing their experiences.

You do not have to agree with someone's choices, but you should engage respectfully.

14. Report problems instead of escalating them

If you see something that violates these guidelines, use Heveny's reporting tools.

Blocking is also available when you no longer want to interact with someone.

Do not retaliate, organize attacks, or encourage other members to harass someone on your behalf.

How we enforce these guidelines

Depending on the situation, Heveny may:

• Remove or limit content.
• Restrict certain features.
• Issue warnings.
• Remove members from communities.
• Temporarily suspend accounts.
• Permanently ban accounts.
• Take additional action where serious safety or legal concerns exist.

We consider the severity of the behavior, context, previous violations, and potential harm when making moderation decisions.

Help us build a better community

Heveny works best when people feel comfortable being themselves, talking honestly, and making meaningful connections without fear of harassment or exploitation.

Be respectful. Protect people's privacy. Respect boundaries. Share responsibly.

Together, we can make Heveny a place where real conversations and real connections can happen.

Last updated: 2026-08-11